Debra Kay Graham

Debra Kay Graham, 71, of Stillwater, Oklahoma, passed away on August 25, 2026, in Stillwater after a lengthy illness. She was born on January 20, 1955.

Debra was a deeply loved woman whose life was held close by family, friends, and the many people and companions who brought her joy. Her family also extends heartfelt thanks to her care team at Stillwater Medical Center and Stillwater Cancer Center for the care and support shown to her.

She was preceded in death by her father, Joe F. Swincher; her mother, Martha J. Passarella; and her brother, Thomas Swincher.

Debra leaves behind a family who will cherish her memory always. She is survived by her sisters, Judy Camp of Little Rock, Arkansas, and Traci Campbell and her husband, Tom, of Benton, Arkansas. She is also survived by her son, Eric Smith of Birmingham, Alabama, and her daughter, Mallory Graham of Wichita, Kansas. Her memory will live on as well in her numerous beloved grandchildren, nieces and nephews, long-lost cousins, and sweet and special neighbors, all of whom held an important place in her life. She also leaves behind her dog, Freddie, the love of her life.

Those who knew Debra will remember her with affection and gratitude, and her presence will be deeply missed by all who had the privilege of sharing in her life.